Looking At The Positive Side Of A Situation
At times in our lives things happen that we have no control over such as being laid off from work or other types of problems that may happen but no matter what, looking at the positive side of a situation is the best thing to do because that will help you get past those hard times. When a family member or a long time friend passes away it can be very hard to lose someone that’s close to your heart and I have been their myself knowing it’s not easy and it’s very heartbreaking when someone that means so much to you passes on plus over the years I have lost some family ,members and friends who past on due to cancer or other types of health issues but what got me through that was remembering all of the good and great times.
We can do one of two things, we can either sit around mope and feel sorry for ourselves and let the days pass us by, or we can just make the best of what ever situation we are facing and keep moving forward plus with family members and friends that have past on they would want others they knew to keep on going and enjoying life. Life is too short to be negative and keep thinking the worst in every situation that you face, things do get better. Some also that are not able to find work have a hard time feeding their kids or putting a roof over their heads and think that things are hopeless but when they learn that there is help out there and others will do what they can to pitch in, they open their eyes and see the positive side of things.
No matter what you are facing in your life and how much hard times your are going through, it’s always best to look at the positive side of the situation and to keep that attitude on the positive side because, things happen in life for a reason plus why stress over things that you can”t control? Some that are in the hospital may have to be in there for months at a time and some may gripe and get impatient and some just make the best of it and learn to have patience. My brother was in the hospital for over 2 months fighting cancer and he did what he needed to do so if you wanna get healthy, you gotta make the best of it and be patient no matter the ordeal. We all face bumpy roads from time to time in every situation we face but, when we are looking at the positive side of a situation, it’s what makes us stronger and more wise to handle anything that comes our way. Myself I have learned to look at the situation in a positive way and not to think negative things otherwise, that will destroy your positive mindset. When you look at the positive side of a situation and know that things will get better, that will help you keep that great attitude that you need to have as you go forward in life.
Being Open And Honest
When it comes to certain situations, being open and honest is very important because you never want to lie about anything that did or did not happen plus it’s always good to tell the truth. Let’s say that a person gets caught shoplifting and they know that their busted plus most of them will say that they did not do it and try anything to get out of it but,that can make things worse by the cops being called and the shoplifter being sent off to jail. But if that shoplifter was honest and admitted it right then and there, it most likely would of been a slap on the wrist and banned from the store.
Another way of being open and honest is if something or someone is bothering you, don’t sugarcoat it or hold it in besides if you hold it in too long you will end up exploding at others around you making things a whole lot worse. When you tell someone what’s on your mind and are 100 percent fully open and honest about it, you will for sure feel much better that you got what you needed to get off of your chest and doing that is very helpful. This is what I am learning because I used to keep things bottled up and would do that until I went off like a firecracker making me look silly so now I am open and honest if I am getting stressed out or if someone or something is causing me to get upset then after that I feel better and fully relieved.
Some may be afraid or embarrassed to say what’s on their mind because they don’t wanna be yelled or laughed it plus with some jobs some employees may be afraid to speak up if their boss is treating them with disrespect but with most jobs if you kindly tell your boss the way that you’re being spoken to is disrespectful and you don’t like it, most of them will admit they were wrong and apologize plus will respect you for standing up to them. For those who are on a strict health change due to overweight you need to be honest with your Doctor and others if you are either sticking to it or have cheated so this way they can be there for you when you do well but get you back on track and the day will soon come that you are slim and in great shape.
No matter what it may be, being open and honest with others plus youself is a very important key in life that not only gains respect for others but, ist also gains respect for yourself. When a couple that’s about to get married and during the years of marriage most of them are open and honest with each other plus, that’s important in any type of relationship. When you are open and honest with people around you,it will show how you care.
Staying On A Regular Sleeping Schedule
In order to get a good nights rest and be refreshed the next day, staying on a regular sleeping schedule is very important. Experts say that it’s best to get a full 7 to 8 hours a sleep per night and to keep your schedule on the same time frame but we know that if you have a job where you work different hours, it may be hard to stay on that same sleeping schedule because of your work schedule changing from week to week or every 2 weeks.
If you are someone that always has the morning shifts and work lets say Monday Through Friday 7Am to 3Pm and have the weekends off that will make it very easy for you to stay on that same sleeping schedule even on the weekends. If you went to bed at 9 Pm in the evening you would be up at 5Am in the morning and you may either get up the same time on the weekends or if you stay up a little bit til 11 pm knowing that you are off the next two days you may end up sleeping in until 7Am. Some that are retired also stay on the same sleeping schedule and get up early because they don’t wanna miss out on great things in life with their family and their Grandkids and Great Grandkids because to them life and sleeping late is too short.
I do admit when I was younger when I did not have to be up early the next day I would be up late like all night then not get up until 3pm but as I got older got used to going to bed early and being up early even on days off. I make sure that on a work night I am in bed early but got into the habit of being up too late on the weekends and need to get back on a regular sleeping schedule even on my days off otherwise I miss out on half of the day plus it’s best for me to be in bed early and get up early so I have a great and full day to enjoy. During the work week I have been up between 5 and 5.30 in the morning but on my days off I am gonna be up between 7 and 8 Am and sometimes 6 Am so no more staying up very late at night, gotta have sleep. Also to make sure that you have a good nights rest don’t have any coffee, soda or anything with caffeine in it when it comes close to your bedtime.
Another way to make sure that you get a good nights sleep is to have a clean room and some large shades plus curtains for privacy when you are getting your full 8 hours of sleep and also sticking to that same bed time is very important as well. Some it may take them from a few moments to about 20 to 30 minutes to fall asleep and some fall asleep once they hit the pillow but either way, staying on that same schedule will do you good.
Getting Every Detail
When it comes to learning or being told important information, getting every detail is very important because there may be some very important information that you don’t wanna miss out on. You may be being taught how to cook and if you are either being taught by a professional or someone you know that’s either a family member or a close friend, you need to pay full attention when it comes to cooking and the dos and don’t of it.
Also you may have a very important task on your job that your boss has talked with you and your co workers about and the reason why here that you wanna pay full attention is that this has important details that you and your coworkers need to know about and you just can’t half listen otherwise if you do and don’t get the full details, you will miss out on what you were told and end up messing up on the task and your boss would not be happy.
If you are someone that’s learning how to drive this is where details are very important because you are driving a automobile such as a car,truck van etc. You need to pay attention to every detail that the driving instructor is telling you if you want to be able to pass that drivers test. Myself I don’t drive but, from what I hear it takes a lot of focus to learn how to drive and you have to learn how to make quick decisions in certain situations.
For those that are being trained for any high risk high pay jobs this is where you really need to pay full attention and this is where your life depends on it. There have been people that have had high risk jobs such as Police Officers Fire Fighters etc and some have lost their lives in these lines of work so knowing survival and how to stay alive is very important plus anyone that’s not experienced in this type of work will need to go through weeks of training and to see if they have what it takes to make it in one of these high risk jobs and any job you have it’s always important to be focused.
Also let’s say you wanna learn how to play the guitar and sing, this requires a lot of focus and attention because not only do you have to focus on your guitar playing but you also need to focus on your singing and there are many great teachers that can teach you both those skills, you just gotta get in every single detail, pay attention so that you don’t miss out on anything that will be of value to you. Whatever you are learning or getting information on, getting every single type of detail is the most very important key that you need. When you are dedicated to getting all the details and having full and complete concentration, it will benefit you very well in the long run. So always remember it’s wise to always pay attention to every detail
Only Focus On What You Want
Some that want better things in life still focus on negative things and gain that so if you want better things in your life, only focus on what you want because doing that will keep you a positive mindset. When you surround yourself with positive thoughts and happy people plus keep a great attitude on top of that great things will come to you plus when you work and focus on what you want in your life, those things will happen also.
The ones who are negative spend all their time complaining about every little thing and they will only gain what they don’t want. So If a person that hates their job and is negative will only focus on getting out of their job and when they keep doing that, they are still gonna be in that same job 5 plus years down the road but a person that has a positive attitude will enjoy that job and that person also has dreams of their own as well. People that have regular jobs with a positive outlook on life also may have big dreams and they focus on those dreams to make them a reality remember, you decide how you want to be a cranky person that’s always angry and negative or a happy person that’s always positive and makes the best of everyday life.
I used to have a habit of focusing on what I don’t want and doing that was holding me back and I will give an example on that. Me my brother and brother in law are planning on moving to San Diego in the near future and a lot of times I have been focusing on getting out of Arizona because if the hot summers but my brother told me don’t focus on getting out of Arizona, focus on moving to San Diego so, I only focus on moving to san Diego and other things that I want in life and no longer will I focus on what I don’t want because, being negative and down is no longer a part of my life it’s gone.
You can also find many ways of keeping a positive and outgoing attitude to keep a happy and great focus on life and the happier you are, the better that you will feel. One way to do that is by going online watching videos that talk about positive and great things that will teach you how to be positive and surround yourself with positive people. Also there are many other things out there that can motive you and your mind that can help get your focus on a positive thinking level. Meditations is another thing that you can do every single morning and this is how I start my day and it does wonders for me and it will do the same for you. So always only focus on what you want and keep the negative thoughts away from your mind always be happy.
My 3D System For Success
I have this system that I use to having success in anything that you want to do and I am gonna tell you about my 3D system for success and when you use it, it will help you as well, the 3D’s in it stand for dedication, determination and discipline. Starting with dedication meaning you made a choice to do something that you want to do in life because it’s your passion and you want to be great at it and determination by showing that you are gonna stick to it and will not give in and finally discipline where you are strict about getting things done and you don’t have time for nonsense.
I came up with this a few years back because I want to be successful in everything that I do and losing weight has been one of them so at the start of the year I went on a health change worked out and did walking and within the last seven months I have lost 30 pounds with only 20 more pounds to get rid of and also have got my work including my post that I do on here done within less than 45 minutes. This 3D system that I have came up with has helped me in many ways possible to learn things plus it’s build up my confidence which is what I needed to stick to doing things that I want to do in my life because believing in yourself is the best thing that you can do and my 3D system for success will help you do that, you gotta stand focused.
I still work a full time job and also want to be able to work from home full time so I can spend more time with family, friends, plus more time for me and more time to do the things that I love to do and I know that when I learn more things, gotta put my 3D system to the full usage. No matter what you want to do work from home, make music, open your own bakery, act, own many food stores or whatever you want to do in your life, if you put this 3D system to use and take it seriously, you will make it and get to where you want to go as long as you are consistent with it and work at it. Anybody can do anything that they want in life and make it big in this world plus others can learn and follow as well. You may come up with your own system for success and many have done that in their lives but for those who go by the 3D system and follow through, they will see greatness and lots of success ahead of them. So always stick to what you want to do and take the 3D system for success at a serious level and when you do you can make any dream that you have a reality. As long as your stick with the dedication determination and the discipline you will have great success ahead of you.
Keeping A Positive Mindset
When you want to start everyday with a great attitude, keeping a positive mindset is the most important and best key that you can do plus in that way when you think positive thoughts and get rid off all negative energy, happiness will fill your heart with joy. One of the ways that you can do this is by listening to a meditation and it can be anywhere from 15 minutes to 30 minutes depending on how much time you have in the mornings but, either way when you wake up and listen to a meditation it will fill your mind with positive thinking and will get your day off to a great and amazing start.
If you let others talk negative about you and you let those thoughts clog up your mind it’s known as a virus for your mind so don’t let that clog up your memory of having a positive mindset, always keep downloading positive thoughts to your mind. I start my day every morning by listening to a meditation and it gets me ready for the day plus I always keep my self in a great mood no matter how difficult a day can be. I used to be the one with the negative attitude and would just complain about every little thing but then I knew after a long while, it was not doing me any good to complain or be negative so since then I have changed my tune. I have a positive mindset and don’t gripe about every little thing plus have learned that don’t worry about things that you can’t control just, keep that positive mindset, focus on good things and you will be doing better and great in your life.
You can also watch videos about keeping and positive mindset from many different motivational speakers that will help you improve your positive mindset. You can also read books, listen to audios and also one of the best ways to do it, is by surround yourself with people that have the same positive mindset as you because, they can also have ideas as well that all of you can put together and you all may share the same passions as well. When you stay away from those that are negative and say negative things, you are giving them a strong and powerful message telling them that you don’t want any negative mindsets and to back away. You are the one with the power of your mindset and you decide what kind that you are going to have, so if you want to have a positive mindset, always wake up everyday with happiness and just find many ways such as thinking happy thoughts to keep that positive mindset and it all starts with a smile. Those who wake up happy will get out of bed once the alarm goes off, splash their face with water and get the day into action. Plus many will also do workouts to boast up the positive mindset that will also help out as well in the long run.
The Importance Of Following Through
When you are learning How to do something like work from home and to also take it on a serious level, you need to understand the importance of following through and why it’s important. Following thought means when you decide that you are going to do something you first need to take the action to get to where you want to be at and follow through to make sure that you are being held accountable and staying on top of it. When you have a very important job that requires for certain tasks to get done, your employer is gonna depend on you and trust you to follow through.
You can’t just say Ok I’m gonna do it one or two days and then slack off because one it doesn’t work that way and two the boss might give ya the old heave ho if you are slacking off and that’s the way it is plus also if you don’t follow through on things you wanna learn, you won’t get anywhere in life. When you realise that following through is a very important key to getting things done and always staying on top of things, you will understand why it’s very important. People that understand the importance of following through knows what it means to get things done and keep on it.
I also believe that for me to follow through is important and if I don’t, I need to be held accountable for my actions and also fess up to it plus also work on ways quickly to get back on track to make sure I follow through from here on out. Let’s say for example you want to learn how to cook and you follow through on it one day and then slack at it, you’re falling into your same habits but when you stick with it you will be successful and eys this is where I have a weakness also I will learn it for a day or two and then slack off so, if I wanna be great at cooking, I need to follow through.
There are many reasons why some people don’t follow through and some of them could be lack of patience and confidence plus will not make the time because they say it takes too long to get done. We need to all stop making excuses and just do what we need to do. The ones who believe in themselves and also have patience understand the importance of following through and work to get things completed. Making a dedication to whatever you want to do in life and knowing the importance of following through is the main and important key to becoming successful in life. When a person has a lot of very strong passion, they are going to do everything that needs to be done in order to follow though so hey can have great things in life. When you are following through and people see that, they will know how serious you are when it comes to getting things done.
Doing A 90 Day Speak Clearly Challenge
I have had a stutter for many years in my life so in order to overcome it, I am doing a 90 day speak clearly challenge that will benefit me in the long run. I will be doing videos and putting them on YouTube everyday for the next three months and this way everyone will see how far that I have come along in this challenge because to me it’s important and needs to be done. I know this will take some time to overcome it but I will overcome my stutter and speaky more clearly.To me that’s a very important thing in my life that needs to be taking care of for myself.
If I let this hold me back and not go forward to doing what needs to be done I am being a hostage to my stutter and I don’t wanna do that and anyone that also has a speech impediment like myself also needs to do whatever is needed to overcome the speech impediment because, it can be done and as long as you follow through with it, you will overcome it soon enough and be able to talk without stuttering and do it more clearly.
No matter what your age is you can overcome stuttering and I am a person that’s 45 years of age and working on overcoming my stutter so anyone can have years of this problem even someone who is 60 years or older have had years of this situation but to overcome your stutter is never too late. There are some that have a bit of a stutter and some have a stutter that’s very bad and it needs a whole lot of work to overcome it plus it takes time, dedication and a whole lot of patience to overcome it so, no matter how difficult it gets, don’t give up just keep on doing what needs to be done.
From what I was taught is that when you are about to say something but got your words twisted up is to stop, take a breath, count to 10 and then say what you were going to say and I have used that trick many times and it works. Also I know many of us go through a lot frustration when we have a stutter and want to get the words out plus some of us don’t wanna talk on the phone because of the stuttering issue but when we overcome stuttering we overcome a whole lot of fears.You can also find many ways of overcoming stuttering by reading online, taking speech classes or do a challenge like I’m doing to overcome it. It does not matter if you are young or young at heart, if you suffer from a lifetime of stuttering, you can overcome it and I know that I will be able to do it. My heart is full of strong confidence and a lot of faith that also carries a strong and positive attitude at all times. So I will be doing this challenge everyday for a full 90 days and posting a video everyday when I’m online.
A Clean Home Is A Happy Home
A lot of us are not too crazy when it comes to doing housework but, we all know that is needs to be done because, a clean home is a happy home. Yes many of us would just wanna not bother with it or hope we can snap our fingers together like magic and presto the whole house is clean but, it does not work that way so we gotta just just put on our big person pants and do what needs to get done and myself I’m not too crazy about doing house cleaning either but responsibilities are first and foremost plus must be done before you can go out and have your daily type of fun.
When keeping your home clean during the week it’s the regular washing dishes after every meal sweep the floor and a little touch up here and there and for those who have the weekends or whatever days they have off is the major home cleaning including dusting, vacuuming, cleaning the bathrooms plus any other major home cleaning that needs to be done and can also include backyard and front yard work that needs to be done. If someone that has not kept their place clean for a long time it will take them a while before they have everything clean and organized but when you keep it clean on a regular basis, it will be very much easier to keep clean and you will have your place clean in less the time it took you before.
When you live by yourself it may take a while to clean your place depending on the size of your home but if you have others that live with you and they all take turns doing their out, it will get done much quicker and then you will all have time to do what you want the rest of the entire day. Also keeping your place clean does not only make it look nice but it prevents different types of pest from coming in and when you have friends and family over, you don’t want them to see your place when it’s a pigpen because, that will turn them off so always make sure your place is clean also when you have people over. When people clean their homes some still use different cleaning supplies and some use just one but now for those who clean their homes will use organic cleaners to clean their places because it’s better for the environment. And although we would just not worry about it, it;’s very important keeping your place clean free of any type of dirt, dust, and anything else that can cause very serious health problems. So always keep in mind that keeping your place clean is a very important key if you want to live in a home that’s always kept up on cleanness. When you keep in the back of your mind that a happy home is a clean home, and take action on it, your place will always be kept clean and neat at al times